If you have felt awkward or incompetent in social circumstances, like social events, here are 2 tips :
✅ 1) Spot a person who "seems" superbly at ease with the surrounding crowd. This can be one of the following results :
A) this person is genuinely ok with almost any social circumstances.
B) this person has developed an impressive arsenal of personal tools to look and sound ok anywhere.
✅ 2) At this same event, find a person who seems probably like you; a
bit uncertain about the fundamental reason to be at this place at that
moment. You can ask this person : How does it feel to be here ? You may
enjoy the answer to a point beyond imagination.
- Until now the adequate training in soft skills has been largely patchy because
underestimated. This state of affair has to change fast, in order to
come up with a better functioning work environment that allows different
minds to shine for the benefit of the organization.
- Tomorrow I will discuss my own arsenal for feeling ok anywhere and say
the right thing at the right time (almost) every time. 😊